She Watched Her Son Eat Rice and Dal With His Fingers. That Was the Point.
I found Cristiane Scheid on Instagram while researching Parenting Unpacked. She had moved to India with her husband and son, had her second child there, and is now in Mexico.
How Do You Know When You Have Adapted Too Much? I Asked Aline França Right To Her Face.
I have been on a rampage lately of asking the people who live and work inside this territory questions I am genuinely curious about.
“Identity Loss Doesn’t Happen All at Once.” Dr. Débora Pasin on What Parenting Unpacked Gets Right.
What happens when a linguist and PhD researcher with 28 years of experience reads Parenting Unpacked? Dr. Débora Pasin breaks down the silent transformations of relocation, identity loss in expat mothers, and why the book gives language to the everyday moments that make us question who we are.
Rima Sent Me Notes While She Was Still Reading. L-O-V-E-D it!
Most of the time I send an advanced copy and then I wait. Rima Elahi-Syed did something nobody else had done before.
What Is the Inherited Scorecard?
The inherited scorecard is the set of standards you absorbed without noticing. What a good parent looks like. What success looks like. What kind of life is considered worth wanting.
I Submitted the Book for the Print Test. Then I Ate an Entire Bag of Chocolate Covered Pretzels.
In the next couple of weeks I will see the physical book for the first time. I was trying to stay calm.
I Posted Casually on Instagram. Here Is What I Put There and Why.
The account has nine followers at the time of writing this, one of whom I am fairly sure is my husband being supportive.
My Book Designer Came Up With an Idea So Good I Thought She Was Flirting With Me.
When she told me I had a very strong impulse to make a joke. I stayed professional. I am telling you the joke now.
I probably should not be doing this.
But the interior of Parenting Unpacked is looking incredible and I cannot help myself.
Here is a random thought.
I find it funny every time I explain to a new author that Parenting Unpacked went through five versions before I found the one. Five versions, not five edits.
The Publishing Industry Prices Itself Out of Reach (And Why I Won't)
I buy books myself. I know what it feels like to look at a price and hesitate. Books are not like videos.
The Lens Is Migration. The Book Is For Everyone.
The lens I use is migration. But migration is not only geographical.
I Chose the Least Voted Cover. Here Is Why.
When I was putting Parenting Unpacked together I made two choices that other authors warned me were risky.
What Is Identity Migration — And Why I Built Parenting Unpacked Around It?
I moved countries. What else moved took me years to name.
Why It Took Five Versions to Write Parenting Unpacked
I wrote a first draft in six months and I was proud of it. Then Luciana Gomide read it and came back with something that was not quite criticism and not quite praise. She wanted more of me in the book. I pushed back.
She Called It Deeply Relevant. I Will Take That Over Bestseller.
I sent Dr. Débora Pasin an advanced reader copy of Parenting Unpacked and she came back with this: "Parenting Unpacked gives voice to the silent transformations that accompany parenthood, adaptation and the sense of belonging in times of change."
Why You Should NOT Buy My Book.
A mother saw the cover of Parenting Unpacked and told me what she would have chosen instead.
I Posted Casually on Instagram. I Am Still Shook.
I posted casually on Instagram about presenting Parenting Unpacked at SIETAR Valencia 2026. Fifteen comments came back. Psychologists, writers, illustrators, friends, strangers. In Portuguese, in English, in emojis.
Parenting Unpacked Is Going to Valencia.
Parenting Unpacked: Parenting Through the Loss of Self is going to be part of the conversation at the SIETAR Valencia España Congress 2026. I am presenting on June 25th — one day after the book launches on Amazon.