Hygge: Finding Balance and Connection Abroad

Ever felt like moving to a new country is like jumping into the deep end of a pool? It’s thrilling, a bit scary, and sometimes you swallow a bit of water! Adapting to a different culture, language, and environment can be a real adventure. One delightful Danish tradition that can help you find your footing is hygge.

What is Hygge?

Hygge (pronounced “hoo-gah”) is a Danish concept that embodies coziness, comfort, and contentment. It’s about creating a warm atmosphere and enjoying the good things in life with good people. Whether it’s curling up with a good book, enjoying a candlelit dinner, or spending time with friends and family, hygge is all about making everyday moments more meaningful and enjoyable.

Why Embrace Hygge?

1. Build New Connections

Moving to a new country can sometimes feel like being the new kid in school all over again. Embracing hygge gives you the perfect excuse to meet new people and make friends. It’s about fostering deep, meaningful connections over cozy, relaxed gatherings.

Example: In Denmark, it’s common to invite friends over for a hyggelig evening, where you might enjoy a home-cooked meal, play games, or simply chat by the fireplace.

2. Improve Language Fluency

Want to sound less like a tourist and more like a local? Hygge is your secret weapon. Casual, relaxed conversations are the perfect way to practice the local lingo without feeling like you’re in a language class.

Example: If you’re learning Danish, hyggelige gatherings can help you pick up slang and expressions that you won’t find in textbooks.

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3. Find Balance

Let’s face it, adapting to a new culture can sometimes feel like juggling flaming torches. Hygge encourages you to take a break, breathe, and savor the moment. It’s your daily reminder that life’s too short not to enjoy a good pastry and a cozy atmosphere.

Example: Feeling stressed out? Schedule regular hygge moments to give yourself a mental and emotional reset.

4. Experience Local Culture

Participating in hygge is a wonderful way to immerse yourself in Danish culture. Enjoy traditional Danish treats like æbleskiver (pancake puffs) and get to know local customs through cozy, meaningful interactions.

Example: Visit a local Danish café, order a warm drink, and enjoy the cozy, inviting atmosphere while people-watching. It’s hygge, Danish-style.

Hygge vs. Fika

You might have heard of the Swedish tradition of fika, which is similar to hygge but focuses more on taking a break to enjoy coffee and pastries with others. While both hygge and fika emphasize slowing down and connecting with people, fika is more structured around specific coffee breaks, whereas hygge is about creating a cozy and enjoyable environment anytime.

Applying Hygge to Life Abroad

1. Create Your Own Hygge Ritual

Even if you’re not in Denmark, you can bring a bit of hygge magic into your life. Set aside time each day to relax and create a cozy atmosphere, whether it’s lighting candles, enjoying a warm drink, or reading a good book.

Example: At home, set up a cozy nook with soft blankets, candles, and your favorite book to unwind after a long day.

2. Share Hygge with Others

Introduce your new friends and colleagues to hygge. It’s a great way to share a piece of Danish culture and spread the love for cozy, meaningful gatherings.

Example: Host a hygge evening at your place with warm drinks, candles, and maybe even a little Danish music to set the mood.

Conclusion

Embracing the concept of hygge can make your adventure abroad a lot cozier and more fulfilling. It’s a simple yet profound way to build connections, find balance, and immerse yourself in local culture. So, next time you need a break, remember to hygge – you’ll be glad you did.

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Jessica Gabrielzyk

Jessica Gabrielzyk is a Brazilian writer living in Switzerland. She moved there with her husband and daughter, who was three months old at the time and had strong opinions about the whole thing even then.

She writes about change.

The visible kind and the kind that happens inside a person, while everything on the outside looks fine.

Her first book, Maternity Abroad, explored what it means to become a mother far from the system you trusted. It has reached readers in more than fifteen countries across five continents. Parenting Unpacked, her second book, follows the experience of parenting through major life disruption, whether that's an international move, a career loss, a new baby, or a life that simply stops responding the way it used to. My First American Coloring Book was created to help toddlers engage with daily life in the United States through play and familiar imagery.

She is a member of SIETAR, the Society for Intercultural Education, Training and Research, and the International Academy of Brazilian Literature.

She writes for the parent who is still inside it, getting through the day, and wondering somewhere underneath all of it who they are becoming.

When she is not writing, she is walking forty minutes uphill with a stroller, telling herself the exercise is the point.

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